Another day, another update about WTF is going on with Jennifer Garner and Ben Affleck. In case you missed it, the former couple were spotted engaging in some light PDA at their son's paintball birthday party, prompting the internet to spiral with claims that Ben is thirsty to reunite with his ex-wife. As a Page Six source put it: Ben “would love another chance” and “would definitely be open to giving things another shot with Jen if the timing is ever right."

However, an insider just told the Daily Mail that "Jen knows about the widespread speculation that she and Ben are going to work it out, as does Ben. They laugh about it because they both know it's not going to happen."

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Meanwhile, Jen is completely unbothered by recent pics of her boyfriend John Miller hanging with his ex. "Jen is more than aware of John’s relationship with his ex-wife Caroline," the insider says. "They started dating when they were both in the process of finalizing their divorces. This really bonded them. Jen knows Caroline and respects her."

Oh, and Caroline is also in a "long-term, happy relationship" so the vibes are "super amicable" / "John being spotted out with Caroline isn’t shocking to anyone."

That said, apparently John is less than thrilled about Paintball Gate, thinks the pics with Ben were disrespectful to his relationship, and has issued Jennifer an ultimatum as a result. More on that...